Masturbation, if you are a woman, often has to do with the physical need of release.

You may find yourself in a relationship that you feel is not satisfying you sexually.

Your love for this person is keeping you there, but you may need to feel a physical release after having sex with your partner, because the sexual act between the two of you did not fulfill your needs.

If you are a single woman then you may have the need to masturbate because you have no partner, and you wish to feel a sexual release. Maybe your life is too busy and a relationship would just complicate things.

Feeling Good

One main reason why women masturbate is that it simply makes feel good to them. The pleasure of masturbation helps to get rid of anxiety and stresses of your day. It will give you a soothing feeling so that you can go to sleep at night.

You may not be able to achieve an orgasm every time that you masturbate, but this should not matter as long as the masturbation is relaxing to you and it feels good. Many women have a strong sex drive, and a need to feel the good sensations that come from masturbation, on a daily basis.

Partner Masturbation

Many women will do masturbation during intercourse with their partner. There are times

mastrubatewhen your partner cannot reach the right spot to help you to have an orgasm, while you are having sex.

Your partner also may like to know that you are pleasuring yourself, and they will probably want to watch.

This can also give your partner sexual pleasure by just watching you. This will make for a better relationship.

You will be able to show your partner where they should be touching, to help you feel pleasure. Sharing this time of masturbation with your partner will help you to understand each other’s needs better.

Absence of a Partner

Sometimes your partner is not at home and you have the need for sexual gratification. Your partner may be away on a long trip for business reasons. Absence of a partner that has joined an armed force, and who is being deployed to another country, could be another reason why you feel the need to masturbate.

You will be able to fantasize about your partner during masturbation, and this will help you emotionally. Cheating is not an option while your partner is gone, so masturbation is your way of feeling release, and sexual pleasure, until they can come home, and you both can resume your normal sexual activity.

Health Reasons

If you or your partner has health issues then you may feel the need to masturbate. Sexual intercourse is sometimes not advisable for a woman because of health issues. An instance of this is when she is in the last days of her pregnancy.

Another instance could be that you or your partner is not physically able to perform any sexual acts, due to surgery or accidents. It is during this time that you will be able to fulfill your sexual needs through masturbation, so as not to risk your health.

Masturbation is a very personal choice, and is becoming more and more accepted among women.

4 COMMENTS

  1. Everytime my partner and I have had sex she will masturbate immediately afterwards. Do most women do this? Or do I or she need to do something to increase her pleasure during intercourse, such as duration of sex, or the position?

  2. hi m 22,

    i had sex with my bf 4 months back as i was into a 6 yrs relationship.n now v both broke up as he got married.
    n even m planning to get married in next 12 months but m scared that my husband will come to know that m not a virgin…cz i was doing it continously for 6 yrs…

    also sometimes i masturbate to satisfy myself…so just wanted to know wud it be affecting my vagina??/
    plz help n reply asap…

  3. Hi Prya:

    I don’t think masturbation could affect your vagina.
    But I think you should know what your fianceé thinks about virginity, and how important it is for him.

  4. hey Priya i dont think that by looking at ur vagina any guy can make out that u r virgin or not untill u tell him.so cool down babe

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